Merry Christmas :)

Firstly, Merry Christmas to all!!! :) The season of giving, what a wonderful day this is. And the next thing we know, it's another brand new year!!! :)

Had a great outing with Pipipapipoopoo today!!! Well, mainly shopping but shopping at Haji Lane was fun! Although I couldn't afford to buy anything in the end, I learnt a lot from this shopping spree haha!!!

Although I'm really sorry since I wasn't really very enthusiastic today due to a serious deprivation of sleep, but I really had an enjoyable time still! :)

Oh and I finally changed my blog skin! Think this new blog skin looks fabulous, although Candice said why is it still anime! But I really like Katekyo Hitman Reborn anyways, so it's perfectly fine k!

Cut my hair before going home for the Christmas party with the nice and tasty Korean barbecue and just drinking from the steamboat!

Once again, I spent a long time on facebook, but it's really fun so it's okay! :)

Had fun reminiscing with my another DEAREST cousin Sindy too, haha Christmas is always fun with cousins around!!!

Feeling rather pissed now since I noticed no one barely takes the initiative to organize outings. Everyone can be so stubborn together, maybe that's the reason why such a group can be formed in the first place.

So if it's always up to the same person to organize a outing where everyone can have fun, why does the the blame still lie on the same person when bad or no activities are organized. Isn't outings enjoyable because we enjoy one another's company, why did it turn out to be something that is hopeless without games or other activities.

So now communication lies on one and the blame also lies on one, but usually it's worth it since everyone turns out happy in the end.

But for goodness sake, not showing temper doesn't mean no temper, warnings and advices are not for show, the task of communication doesn't lie on one alone, and it's just ain't nice to continue depending and not being in the least appreciative.

I don't usually comment on small things because they are not worth the effort to emphasize on and strain relations, but sometimes when things become so obvious, is it so hard to empathize just a little.

I'm really thankful to Candice and Hong Wen for always going through the trouble of organizing outings for PPPPPP since everyone is always so busy to even attend one outing!!! So really thanks lots!!! :)

Although I know this message will probably never go through to the other party, it lightens my mood to just post about this.

No one likes to blame themselves, and that results in everything.

I want to stop complaining about anything since that further strains relations, so I shan't continue no more.

From next year on, I shall try my best not to criticize, condemn and complain. :)

Just received several messages that are all very heartwarming, and that sort of calmed my mind to stop thinking about stuffs that dampen moods. Thanks a lot!!! :)

Talking about moods, was casually scanning through my live journal last night, and read a private post that told me I would be pissed off if I read the post 10 years later, and since it had already been two years, I happily read the whole post. And wow, everything suddenly came back to life and I remembered so many things that resulted in what things are now.

Everything happens for a reason, and even though the heart doesn't remember, the body remembers. That's what xxxHolic taught and well, it's true no matter how I look at it.

I have learnt my lesson that it is impossible to change others, both for the better or for the worse, that's why frequency is so important in the first place. Changing frequencies is easy, but the heart and the basis of it remains the same. And this rejection by the heart would finally be felt by the body, resulting in a not so happy ending.

But optimistically saying, this reaction can only be for the better, at least now I understand why people become how they are now.

Nobody adopts a personality by any chance, anything one does is always a result of another's actions and this in turn influences and shapes one's self. A happy person is not always the one who had happy encounters throughout his phase of life, just like a sad person did not become sad because wants to be so.

Putting one self in another person's shoes might sound really easy, but how many of us really does so in the first place. I have attempted to do so and found many reasons for another's behavior but is it so hard to have the positions switched once in awhile. I don't mind you being judgmental when doing so and change your opinion after sincerely doing so.

The last thing I would do is to throw away a treasured friendship, and that's also the last thing I would even attempt to think about. But why attempt to hold on, when you have tried to done so for so many times, but not once reciprocated.

Yes, maybe reciprocated once, but seriously, is it so hard to hard to ask for a little more empathy. Stop being so judgmental for goodness sake, so it's true, it's just easier to find faults than merits, but understand another's fault is more vital, is it not?

Guess I'm really tired at how things are going, it's true I can simply put everything behind and see how the new year turns out, but it's always good to reflect on the current situation.

Fortunately, there's always the good side to look upon, all these taught me another lesson in life, and allowed me to honestly appreciate others. And with all my lovely family and friends living healthily and probably happily around me, that's already the greatest fortune one can get.

Christmas day, in the season of giving, I can only hope for Santa Claus to put more empathy, compassion and understanding in all our hearts. That would really be the best gift for everyone around the world. :)

Finally, I truly wish everyone a merry Christmas and let's all put a little more optimism into the depths of our soul. Everything happens for a reason, and every reason results in everything that's going on around us. And since nothing can be changed in the blink of an eye, it wouldn't really hurt to simply view things more positively in the meantime.

Be optimistic and best wishes. :)